Beetles and Roses

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

just wanna share you some videos of Beetles and Roses that i have watched. its aiman azlan and sister wardina saffiyah.

Q1: How to manage a friendship between male and female

point yang sempat aku catit. aiman azlan suggested two guidelines.
  • first, check your intention. what is the reason to interact to this person? kawan sebab apa? ask your heart and make it clear. 
  • second is always listen to your heart. yep, i agreed this. because my heart never lie cewahh ngada kau syakirah. okey, slalunya hati kita boleh sense is it we are almost crossing the boundary? macam berlebih lebihan, dah macam bukan rupa kawan je kann. if yes, then stop it. even your heart ask you to, but ur mind would say ala ini takpa, takda apa lahh. ya, banyak la kau punya tak da apa kan. :) 
Q2: What can we do if we unintentionally fall in love? defination of love. tak sure the question apa.

sis wardina: perfect match? no such thing. we have weaknesses and we have our strengths. bagi aku, kurang dan lebih tu la melengkapi each other kan?
prof tariq: kalau hidup kita dengan Allah ni kita asyik nak label halal haram and halal haram and halal haram. no, it should not be that way. because actually relationship between Allah is like a love story. watch this video, sis wardina had gave examples.

just think about it, is it love or lust? hmm.

Q3:What about dating, is it halal? (must watch,aiman azlan lawak. haha)

you must attach your love to something that never go up and down, attach to that always be there, that never fade away. if you attach your love to the looks, 2 and 3 years it will go away, if you attach your love to money, money will go away, if you attach your love to people, people go away but if you attach your love to Allah, Allah will never go away. never and ever.

aiman azlan ask to think beyond fiqh, actually the definition of love all are messed up. the sign that love is true is when the love bring closer to Allah, and causes Allah to pleased you, that is true love.

so, if people understand this, the question of is dating halal won't come up. seriously. kan?

Q4: Love before marriage or after marriage?

okey. u have to watch this. is so long and hard for me to make some point here. my opinion, sebenarnya cinta sebelum kahwin ni u have to think about things that you are not supposed to think. again, agreed! sebab bla bercinta, u know what, kepala otak tu dah bercabang-cabang, nak pk blajar lagi, nk pk si kekasih hati lg, kerja lg, and u need to prepare yourself to be better lg. for me,konon ada org support la time blaja, beri kata-kata smangat, peneman suka dan duka etc and for me all these are wasting. yes u waste your time, you waste your money. even you waste your feelings too. have u realize that u have Allah, u have Allah to spill everything, your problems, your happiness, besides Allah, u have family, friends. its more than enough. and if u need courage? Allah always there for you. seriously. i have been through this and i don't feel that i need one anymore. Allah is better than everything.

another thing that sis wardina said is marry the one that compatible to you in terms of thinking, in terms of  clarifying your future. make sure both of you are not depart in making your way of life. lebih kurang macam sependapat. 

and another thing that sis wardina suggest, and i have read/listen to erm not sure siapa. u must set some criteria. before u know "that person". if u meet someone, then check him/her, is she/he have that criteria? macam me, tinggi. haha. so pendek sila cross! :P or merokok. if merokok is not your criteria so don't go for it. sila cross. its important. memang la semua nak yang baik, soleh solehah bagai kan but besides making that criteria, u should be like one. org baik baik dengan org baik baik kan so lebih kurang macam tu la.

Q5: early marriage?
islamic couple. bercinta kerana Allah lerr konon. haha. must watch jugak. think it is islamic or SOUNDS like islamic? haaaa. aku nampak dah ni. terang lagi bersuluh.

point yang aku highlight:
  • islam is not wait and see but pursue and see.
  • maturity depends on experienced and how u look at thing.
  • choose your spouse for your children not for yourself. think beyond yourself.
Q6: how to be the ideal one?

improve to be better. determine what u want to improve and find motivation to work on it. love Allah, love yourself, then insyaAllah people will love you. be realistic and rational.

done! sharing is caring. :) hari ni sore throat and suara separa hilang dah ni. so, now nak masak for berbuka. (tediaaa, masak tu haha) salam ramadhan. fill your daily activities this ramadhan by recites quran with the tafsir. extra zikrullah, learn something new ke instead of watching tv entah drama takde faedah tu or instead of playing games, marathon movie etc. just,don't waste your time. every seconds count okey! assalamualaikum. slamat berbuka ;)

15 comments:

Nazrul Ashraff said...

menarik. akan bukak balik entry ni. sekarang takde masa dan takde feeling nak baca. huhu.

AqilahRomi said...

You watch this too? Best kan! :)

syakey said...

nazrul: hopefully u have time to watch this coz i am sure it will benefit u a lot.

aqilah: i just watch it in youtube. taylor college is too far T__T yep best!

wani ezryl * said...

ha perkongsian yg sgt indah :) sy ingt time belajar dulu sibuk main je haha. couple pun tak ada. so yeah, i went enjoy my student life then bila kerja kalau dah jumpa the one baru proceed to the next level :P

Laila Mahfol said...

Super duper cool. Love this video :)

syakey said...

sis wani: sis takpa, sudah kawen dh pon. hihi. tapi masa time blaja kan, kalau ada boipren mesti nk bekepit aje. macam dah takde keje lain dah. haaa, mcm tu betul, dh jmpa, dh rasa serasi boleh lah masuk masuk meminang ya? ;)

laila: harap ada manfaatnya ^^

ABU said...

ulasan yang bernas.. pandai ko bagi pendapat dan capture points dia kan..

honestly aku tak tengok pun clip tu tapi aku baca pun aku dah faham apa yg disampaikan.. but obviously need to ply that clips to know more..

having Allah is more then enough.. noted wif that..thanks syakeyra :)

Yousof said...

Berbaloi aku tunggu malam sebab nak tumpang tengok video ni kat rumah kawan aku.. ;)

Pun nak cakap macam Abu, pandai kau bagi pendapat dan ulasan kau sendiri..

Kadang² kita tak faham, tapi buat² faham sebab ramai yang buat macam tu sedangkan kita dah terkeluar dari laluan sebenar, Astaghfirullah..


"It's funny but it's true"

anamizu kaito said...

tu la.. aku pon sokong gak ape yg ABU & YUSOF komen tu.. bace point ko plus tgk video tu mmbuatkan aku double triple fhm point yg dorang nk smpaikan..

and tu la. zmn skg ni mmg byk dah yg x pikir tergelicir iman ape smue tuh =.='





slm ramadhan,
cik ana

aimie amalina said...

huwaaa

full of information la syakey..
ni sebena perlu belajar dan lahir dari intipati diri sendiri kan?

tanx syakey, for sharing dis ;)

syafiqakarim said...

menarik sgt ni syakey.
buat aku renung renung kembali
dan beberapa membuat angguk agreed
eceh.


minum air masak byk puasa ni
salam ramadhan beb.
*haa utk ubat yg kau suggest tu.nanti aku try.br baca testimoni dia. mcm ok

PelajarDuniaAkhirat said...

ALLAH!!..menarik sangat.. :)

onie said...

fuh! pandai gila kau ulas.... thanks for sharing :")

farhana said...

suka giler entry yg ni. thanks a lot syakey =) 100 points!

azalia hjsalleh said...

thx syg share ni..
pengisiannya menarik =)
kalau ada lg.. nanti share dgn kita lg ye